Bring This (not that) to a Dinner Party
The invitations have arrived and you’re set to attend a dinner party or two this holiday season. You accept the invite and have your look picked out. Naturally, as the supreme guest, you would like to bring… something? Here is a list of what you should bring to a dinner party, and what to avoid, for host’s-sake.
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Bring A Dish
It's a lovely gesture to bring a dish to the dinner party, and in fact, when an invitation arrives, our first question is "Can I bring anything?". It's polite to ask first. If the host agrees for you to contribute, always inquire about the menu and type of cuisine before bringing a dish. We recommend choosing something that complements the meal, fits in with the style of food being served, and is no-fuss for the host. Items should be easy to serve once you arrive at the party, require little preparation on site, and presented beautifully on a platter or in a nice baking dish. Even better if the vessel is a gift for the host to keep after the event.
A Bouquet of Blooms
Flowers arrangements make lovely hostess gifts. Choose a local florist that uses seasonal blooms and choose a pretty vase or vessel that the party-thrower can keep. (Avoid toxic plants like poinsettias if your host has pets.)
A Thoughtful Gift
Our favorite hostess gifts are simple and thoughtful. Personalizing the gesture is key. A bottle of wine from the region of the dinner party theme is an easy choice, such as a Montepulciano or Pinot Grigio as a nod to an Italian feast. If you're not sure of a theme, opt for a gift that complements the host - a cookbook from a favorite chef, a candle from a local maker, a tea towel or cocktail napkins donning a favorite quote. When all else fails a bottle of bubbly, a nice box of chocolates, or a bouquet of flowers are always welcomed.
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These are No-No’s
Avoid cheap wine or provisions - think less, but better. Do your best to keep gifts simple and tasteful, as the point is to show gratitude for the invitation, not to make a big fuss. And with any dishes you may bring, don't try to upstage the host or their meal, as you may hurt their feelings. Finally, do not bring anything that's messy or with a strong odor, which will cause more work or a distraction to the host or other guests.
Gratitude is Always Appreciated
Following a dinner party, a short message, note, or phone call expressing your thanks for the invitation is a kind gesture. Mention one or two of the party highlights as a compliment to the host. The best expression of gratitude is returning the favor, so include this special friend at your next gathering.
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