How to Host a Tiny Wedding
Like it or not, 'tis the season to be socially distant, and what a better time than to celebrate with a beautiful intimate wedding or reception. The micro wedding, mini wedding, tiny wedding, or elopement has always been around, but we believe these petite fetes are more cherished than ever before. And though they may be small in size, these beautiful celebrations are mighty in magic.
If you're ready to wed and don't want to wait for a big to-do, here are our top tips for hosting a mini wedding or reception:
Keep that Guest List Short
The whole point of a tiny wedding is to keep it, well, tiny. Think small when it comes to the invite list. Immediate family and your besties only. And probably nix any random plus ones. Deciding if it's 10 or 50 people (whatever small means to you), the number of guests who will witness your vows will definitely inform the rest of your planning decisions.
Choose a Location (and think outside the norm)
This might be your chance to wed mountainside or at a beach bungalow or your grandparents' estate. Hosting a smaller crowd will give you much more flexibility when choosing a venue, especially a non-traditional one. Couples are opting for rental properties, cozy inns, lodges, or private residences, not only to potentially save money, but because they can. Some of these gems would be completely out if you were inviting 200, so take advantage. (And if you'd eyed a favorite venue for years, ask about any spaces that work for your event size.)
Plan with Intention
We spend so much time working with couples to make their guest count of 250 feel as intimate as a dinner party for 25. It's a challenge we gladly accept, but it's hard to deny how lovely a smaller group can sometimes feel. Since you'll have fewer loved ones by your side with a micro wedding, give them a more meaningful experience. Opt for a more luxe dining experience. Create individualized welcome gifts, programs, or favors - maybe with a personalized note to each guest. They'll notice the special touches and you'll be glad you splurged on the sentimental.
Celebrate from Afar
Of course, there are downsides to a more intimate affair. There are probably lots of friends and family that wish they were present on this most important day. Be honest about your decision to keep it small, but also allow them to celebrate you in their own way. Technology has been a blessing in these crazy times - grandma never looked so good on Zoom. If live-streaming isn't your thing, opt for a cinematographer for your day to share wedding highlights with those unable to attend.
Party On!
A petite fete is lovely, but still wanting that big bash? Plan it for a later date. We've had several clients choose to wed in a mini fashion, but cannot wait to party with alllll the friends a year later. The decision to go small may be for safety, it may be for convenience, it may be for fun. Splitting a "traditional" ceremony plus reception day into two dates definitely works for some.
There can be so many benefits to a smaller event, from cost-savings to fewer logistics, special splurges to remote locales. We really do adore a mini wedding - let us help you plan yours!